Two Planners and a Designer

Many brides have a vision of what their wedding will look and feel like. Others are avid viewers of such popular shows as “Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?” and “Platinum Weddings”. These shows give all sorts of ideas on how to make your special day fabulous. Often times the ideas are quite pricey. But the fact of the matter is not every bride has an unlimited budget to splurge. What’s a girl to do? Set a budget!!

It’s ideal to assemble a bicycle according to instructions. It’s also best to follow directions when travelling to somewhere you’ve never been before. In the same vein, it’s definitely in your best interest to establish a budget to follow when planning your wedding. A budget serves as a definitive guide of the maximum you are willing and/or able to spend for every cost associated with your wedding day. These costs include ceremony and officiant, gown and tux, transportation, reception venue, food, etc. I think you get the point.

Often times, brides and grooms (and their parents too) are apprehensive of setting a budget for their big day. Understably so. It highlights the stark reality of the situation. You may have to spend a significant amount of money to make your ideal day a reality. OR you may have to cut costs in unexpected areas to avoid going into serious debt. The truth is, being realistic at the beginning of planning your wedding can save you lots of stress and trouble towards the end.

Setting a budget involves being sure that you have or will definitely have the amount of money needed for the wedding you want to have. You may need to have a longer engagement in order to set aside the money you need. Often times you may need to be open minded to certain options you may not have previously considered. The bottom line is you will prevent yourself from overspending by doing your best to stay strictly within your established budget. Once you have determined what your maximum amount will be, your planner can better help you set realistic expectations of what your budget will cover taking into consideration the number of guests you will expect and the type of event you want to have. Specifically, your budget will help dictate the most you can spend on any given wedding expense.

Now don’t fret ladies! Setting a budget doesn’t mean you have to give up fabulosity! Often times a strict budget will get your creative juices flowing. You’d be surprised at the unique and fabulous things brides and planners come up with to stay within budget. It is truly an adventure. This may be a reality check, but it’s a good one. Budgets are critical to stress-free wedding planning. Happy wedding season everyone and enjoy!

Eileen Ajayi
On Behalf of TPD